This also means that the perspective of the cared for has to be understood – and respected – by the carer. In this way, the cared for is afforded an opportunity to exercise self‐determination. Strictly speaking, the cared for does not shift perspectives. What happens is that the perspective of the cared for is taken into consideration by the healthcare provider because the process of caring, on this account, is being done by the carer on behalf of the cared for. The carer and the cared for are partners in the activity. The relationship between them is not hierarchical but complementary, as healthcare providers or researchers need to be reminded when seeking informed consent from patients or research subjects.