Table 2 Explanations of being satisfied with the treatment choice N column (%) Total (n = 118) N (%) Satisfied (n = 92) N (%) Not satisfieda (n = 26) N (%) Relatives mentioned: b • Only positive aspects 47 (42) 42 (48) 5 (20) • Positive and negative aspects 35 (31) 26 (30) 9 (36) • Only negative aspects 31 (27) 19 (22) 11 (44) Positive aspects mentioned • We tried everything 28 (24) 22 (24) 6 (23) • It was the patients’ choice 17 (14) 11 (12) 6 (23) • Lived longer 16 (14) 15 (16) 1 (4) • The treatment worked 14 (12) 11 (12) 3 (12) • No side effects 12 (10) 10 (11) 2 (8) • It gives hope 10 (8) 7 (8) 3 (12) • Good quality of life 6 (5) 6 (7) 0 (0) • Other 3 (3) 3 (3) 0 (0) Negative aspects mentioned • The treatment didn’t work 23 (19) 17 (18) 6 (23) • Side effects 15 (13) 11 (12) 4 (15) • It was not my choice 12 (10) 5 (5) 7 (27) • Quality of life worsened 10 (8) 3 (3) 7 (27) • Treatment was given too long 9 (8) 4 (4) 5 (19) • Burdensome hospital visits 5 (4) 3 (3) 2 (8) • The treatment was started too late 4 (3) 4 (4) 0 (0) Other aspects mentioned • Good quality of care 19 (16) 19 (21) 0 (0) • Insufficient quality of care 15 (13) 9 (10) 6 (23) • It was the choice of the oncologists 13 (11) 11 (12) 2 (8) • I don’t know how it would have been otherwise 7 (6) 3 (3) 4 (15) • It helped science 3 (3) 3 (3) 0 (0) aIncluding relatives who reported “not sure” on the treatment satisfaction. b 4% missing. Percentages don’t add up to 100% since more answers were possible